Top Tips for Handling the Party Wall Process Smoothly and Keeping Good Neighbourly Relations

Navigating the party wall process can be stressful, but handling it in a courteous and thoughtful way can prevent many disputes under Section 10 of the Party Wall Act. If more people followed these simple tips, there would likely be fewer conflicts, and neighbourly relations would remain positive.

Here are some top tips to keep things smooth:

  • Communicate early, clearly, and in person
  • Suggest using an ‘agreed surveyor’
  • Respect your neighbour’s choices

These guidelines will help regardless of how your neighbour responds.

1. Early, Clear, and In-Person Communication

Too often, neighbours only hear about building work from a surveyor seeking to profit from disputes—sometimes referred to as an “ambulance-chasing” surveyor. These professionals often spot planning applications and jump in to stir up conflict, sometimes without the building owner’s knowledge. This disrupts the possibility of a friendly, direct conversation with your neighbour.

To avoid this, speak with your neighbour early on—ideally before submitting any planning applications. Open communication builds trust, helps prevent misunderstandings, and reduces the chance of conflicts arising.

2. Suggest the ‘Agreed Surveyor’ Approach

It’s not for the building owner to dictate how a neighbour should respond to a notice. Unfortunately, some neighbours may feel pressured into giving consent without fully understanding their rights. If a neighbour objects and wishes to appoint their own surveyor, consider suggesting the ‘agreed surveyor’ approach.

This is often overlooked, but having one impartial surveyor act for both parties can save both time and money. If the neighbour refuses this suggestion, it may be unreasonable, and you could face additional fees and delays. Gently proposing this option can help maintain a cooperative atmosphere.

3. Be Considerate of Your Neighbour’s Choices

Don’t expect your neighbour to always respond as you might hope. Sometimes, they may object simply because they want to cause trouble or avoid fees. In these cases, don’t take it personally. The appointed surveyors and the Party Wall Act provide mechanisms to resolve these disputes fairly and efficiently.

Always remember that your neighbour might have valid reasons for their response, so try to give them the benefit of the doubt.


By following these tips, the party wall process becomes much less stressful and can help maintain strong, positive neighbourly relations throughout the project.

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